Your Frequently Asked Questions - Matt-at-Lotus

Your Questions Answered.... Based On Real Questions:

Q. So where are you based?

A. South Manchester M16. You will not be given specifics until you book.

Q. Do you do out calls?

A. Yes but only to hotels. See terms for further details.

Q. What kind of massage it is?

A. Deep tissue, aromatherapy (if you like, no problem if you prefer unscented oil) and therapeutic but obviously this then becomes sexual, sensual and erotic. Very much depends on your needs, you can go straight to the sexual aspects if you prefer, or have a build up.

Q. What do you look like?

A. You can get a pretty good idea from the images on this website but of course you will want a clear face pic. I can send this via WhatsApp but if you do not have a face picture yourself I will not send one. This is for security purposes.

Q. How big is your cock?

A. I hate this question and never answer in inches. It is above average and very aesthetically pleasing, circumcised.  

Q. How old are you?

A. I will never tell..... ;-)

Q. Do all bookings involve sex?

A. Your fee is for my time only, anything else that may happen is between two consenting adults in private.

Q. Can I just book you as an escort without the massage?

A. Absolutely. I love doing massage but very happy to meet you for dinner (see NEW lower prices for dinner dates on escort pages and terms page) and relaxing dates in your hotel room. You can also see me at mine for a straight down to it escort booking. Hugs included....

Q. Do you kiss?

A. Yes! Please make sure your oral hygiene is as good as mine.

Q. Do you 'Party and Play'?

A. On occasion but very small amounts and nothing hardcore. I do NOT do chemsex, slamming or chem groups. Enquire with your personal requirements.

Q. Can I use poppers?

A. Certainly, I rarely use them myself (they give me a headache!) but do on occasion.

Q. Do you answer withheld numbers?

A. Never.

Q. Can my wife watch/book a massage/will you teach me how to massage her?

A. No.

Q. I have a disability/physical challenge will you still see me?

A. So sad to hear this question - of course I will!! Be an absolute pleasure xxx

Do you have a question? Either call me, text me or email me.... then book to see 'one of the best in the business' - Kisses....




Expect the unexpected....

Much love and many blessings,

Matt-at-Lotus xXx

because everybody needs to be held

What I offer here at


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Matt-at-Lotus - because everybody needs to be held - London and Manchester

25 Years!! and Still Going Strong - Winner - Sexual Service Provider of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards

Testimonials / Reviews:


'One of the best in the business'  'Marcus'


'Matt has the touch of an angel'  'Tommy'

'That was just what I needed, intimacy, fun, and the best Massage in Manchester. Thank you'  Chris'


'You took me to a place I never knew. What an embracing experience' 'Sam'

'This is more than a massage. I've had some massage before but this is on another level. Matt is one talented, genuine guy. I'll be back!'  'Jonathon'

'A well deserved award! (Sexual Service Provider of the Year) One of the best workers I've ever seen' 'Raj'

This Website is for over 18's only although there are no inappropriate images.

Thank You For Visiting Matt-at-Lotus

Pages now updated for Manchester: Matt-at-Lotus Gale Male Massage Manchester and Male Escort Manchester  So if you're looking for a hot male massage by a trained masseur that includes deep tissue, sensual, aromatherapeutic, naturist and homoerotic bodywork - I'm your man. The About Matt page has also been updated for 2018. Also updated services: Male Escort London.


Pages coming soon for London include: massage (including sensual), holding work, partner practice, companionship and social escort services to: male, male trans, intersex men only. Escort service remains the same for Southern Cities.

More new pages coming soon: Male Masseur London and You and Your Body (for people with physical challenges).

Your fee is for my time only. Anything else that might happen is between two consenting adults in private.


Matt's male man-to-man massage studio is situated on the Chorlton border in South Manchester. Close to bus stops and major road links. Free car parking available.



Last appointment 11.00PM*


PRIVACY POLICY. TERMS OF SERVICE Copyright 2016/2017/2018 Matt-at-Lotus Gay Man2Man Deep Tissue Massage Manchester Thank you for visiting this adult male massage site. Please note this website is for over 18's only. Your fee is for Matt's time only and anything else that might happen is between two consenting adults in private. *These are typical opening times. Feel free to try later on. If Matt is still working he will do his best to accommodate you. IN calls Homoerotic Massage in Manchester and London. OUT calls to hotels in both cities.

SEX WORK: For IN CALLS: Matt is a trained professional and his clean male massage studio Is easily accessible from Manchester City, Liverpool, Cheshire, Warrington, Didsbury, Salford, Sale, Chester, Blackpool, Wilmslow, Alderley Edge and Macclesfield. London is only 2 Hours by train. OUT CALLS also available, deposit and minimum 2 hour booking required (Negotiable, if local).