Matt-at-Lotus, the award winning, heart-centred former escort and sexual masseur has been retired now for over two years. His commitment to mindful, conscious sex continues and his desire for sex workers to be treated with respect is stronger than ever. Stay tuned - for something magical.... Love and Light, M xXx

Hello you... Want some company?

I'm Matt-at-Lotus, a sex worker, escort, mindful companion and sexual masseur. My goal is to help you to feel comfortable with sex, your sexuality, your body and to introduce you to what is often called the sexual energy. Sex is supposed to be.... fun! I am a... cough cough... tries to be modest.... award winning sexual service provider (Sexual Freedom Awards 2017).

From kink to cuddles... I'm the ideal choice for guys who are learning, want to try something different and although I am not perfect - I've got soft bits here and there I wish were more toned haha ... I am real, genuine, and sure - pretty cute. My massage experience is varied - I use acupressure, healing techniques and combine these with my professional training in bodywork, healing and massage. I work in Manchester, London and travel widely at your request. Brighton and Leeds are also fave places to visit but whatever works for you.


I have always delivered my sexual massage, gay escort and companionship services from my heart, but now I invite you to take on this unique approach and see what it really feels like to:

  • Meet a mature professional who cares about you

  • Enjoy time with a genuine guy who is kinda sexy ;-)

  • Experience the sexual energy (it tingles!)

  • Have a fabulous proper massage with frills

  • Know what it feels like to express yourself as you've always wanted

  • Take time out for you in the company of.... moi!

I consider myself a champion for the rights of people with bodies of difference and welcome men  who have physical challenges. I also work with those who might have learning difficulties and am happy to speak with PA's and carers wishing to make an appointment for their employers or residents. I am experienced in working with pretty much everybody and also have nurse  experience and training.

I believe passionately that sex work is a caring profession and that we must transform the shame so often conditioned into us by society and religion by just.... being present and having fun doing whatever turns us on.

I deliver what is often called a gay massage, tantric massage and sexual acupressure to gay, bisexual and questioning men in Manchester and London. Gentlemen who identify as trans and guys who are intersex will be welcome.


Using over two decades of experience as an escort and sexual masseur I can give you valuable and often original insight in order to help you to better your sex and relationship life. Lots of people visit me who have struggled with sexual problems such as erection problems, delayed ejaculation, premature ejaculation etc. I support you to explore your body and sensual self in a way that takes your attention away from the problem... and into the solution.

That said, the services I offer are incredibly flexible. I can be your confidante and healer one minute - your dirty slut the next. Let me know what you need and my intuition will also guide us.


About Your Gay Massage Facilities in Manchester

For IN calls I work from a home based massage studio in South Manchester which is very special, complete with professional massage table, organic oils, heating, muslin drapes and soft lighting. Shower facilities are available too. I work with transparency so do know that unfortunately the building (flats) I live in is old and certainly needs some TLC and the bathroom isn't great, however, once you are in my studio - it's fantastic - as are my massage and intimate skills.

About Companionship Services - London and Manchester

I am great company, deeply intuitive and a bit of a chatterbox ;-) I am happy to accompany you on a dinner date, a sightseeing tour of Manchester and I can also meet you in London to share my companionship, massage or gay escort services with you. The boyfriend experience is my specialty and this can help you to feel special. Long term arrangements welcome.

For companionship only services my charges are very reasonable and understanding. I believe that most of our struggles as human beings stem from a lack of human affection or simple human contact. Let's put that right. Click here for my gay escort and companionship services in Manchester and London (can be purely social so great for straight guys who need a mate or more personal so for gay, bi and questioning guys).


Want your company exclusive? As the sex work and general escorting changes, I now offer a Male Courtesan Service to a very limited number of gents. Ideally just one caring client needing to employ me exclusively would be ideal. Please enquire.


Overnights are welcome to established clients only at just £500 (plus travel). See terms for details.

More About Me - Stuff You Might Want To Know (personal content)


I have a very appealing above average-sized circumcised penis for your touching and viewing pleasure. I am very clean, trimmed where it matters, have green eyes, dark blond hair and my oral hygiene is top notch (please make sure yours is too because I am a great kisser!) My waist is 34 inches on a good day (giggles....) chest 38 and I usually have designer stubble. I don't tend to smoke but can be a social smoker on rare occasions.

Safer intimacy: I think it is reassuring to know that I see very few clients these days. This makes it safer so far as numbers are concerned but also the way that I work is very low risk. Cuddles are completely safe ;-) The massage and acupressure I do are mainly healing and sensual and even for the more intimate aspects of your time with me I rarely exchange fluids and sometimes use flavoured condoms. I'm not a saint (clearly.... ) but I think it is really important to work honestly and although like anyone I can be very slutty ... I do take care of myself and am checked at the sexual health clinic every three months. I very rarely get cum in my mouth and if I do I tend not to swallow (unless surprised lol). It's all about minimising risk but do remember that risk is never zero. It is what it is. Feel free to call if you have any concerns.

and finally...


I am pretty much retired now but as with most workers - I keep my hand in on occasion haha.... I am very picky wit regard o who i see and I much prefer returning clients OR genuine easy going, nonjudgmental and respectful gents. PLEASE be aware that I cut off inappropriate enquirers, time wasters and the like very quickly. . Currently I do OUT HOTEL CALLS ONLY and as such a deposit is always required to prevent time wasting.


Want to see me as an  Escort in Manchester? Escort in London? CompanionGay Masseur?


Happy to help.

Much love to you and see you soon.

Matt xXx ;-)


*NB It is now mainly an escort out call service.... Cuddles always included...... Hug! xXx

Matt-at-Lotus - Often Copied - Never Equaled



Matt's male man-to-man massage studio is situated on the Chorlton border in South Manchester. Close to bus stops and major road links. Free car parking available.



Last appointment 11.00PM*


PRIVACY POLICY. TERMS OF SERVICE Copyright 2016/2017/2018 Matt-at-Lotus Gay Man2Man Deep Tissue Massage Manchester Thank you for visiting this adult male massage site. Please note this website is for over 18's only. Your fee is for Matt's time only and anything else that might happen is between two consenting adults in private. *These are typical opening times. Feel free to try later on. If Matt is still working he will do his best to accommodate you. IN calls Homoerotic Massage in Manchester and London. OUT calls to hotels in both cities.

SEX WORK: For IN CALLS: Matt is a trained professional and his clean male massage studio Is easily accessible from Manchester City, Liverpool, Cheshire, Warrington, Didsbury, Salford, Sale, Chester, Blackpool, Wilmslow, Alderley Edge and Macclesfield. London is only 2 Hours by train. OUT CALLS also available, deposit and minimum 2 hour booking required (Negotiable, if local).